This feeling!

Seronoknya nak kahwinnnn! tak seronoknya bila fikirkan study bila nak abes!! hahahhaha!

tu lah. mende seronok pasti disusuli gan perkara tak berapa seronok. ni lah kehidupan.

papepon, aku byk kali gadoh gan mak aku. hahhahahah! tah pape tah.

suke betui buat mende merepek2. kahwin je pn. ape di kesahkan nya lahai.

aku pentingkan nikah. kendurik tu mmg lah aku nk buat cecantik. dek kerana wang dan masa, aku telankan aje ape yang aku mahu. tapi buat lah pape pn, semua di tgn mak bapak. ye lah. mcm dwg pnye kendurik pula. jd aku tekadkan hati, ignore je ape mak aku nk bpk aku nk. huhuu..

just cant wait MARCH! hahah!

tp disebabkan study tak jalan sgt, alamak, rs seram je nk masuk bulan march. huhuhu..

Agree with this article!

tengah2 print kad kahwin sekali ternampak article ni. most of it mmg sgt2 betui. especially yang last sekali. sangat penting utk cari bakal suami yang terima kita dan melepaskan apa yang telah berlalu. toooooo important to handle! kalau tak mmg the rest of your life lah rasa bersalah, terhina dan sebagainya. i felt it, once, before. but currently, alhamdulilah, dapat future husband yang mmg betui2 terima kite, tak pernah mention anything pasal my past. i am so surprised! saya pernah bersama dengan lelaki baik, lelaki jahat. tapi semua same. no kidding. no lying. this is for real. huhu. alhamdulilah bersyukur dapat lelaki yang paling match gan kite. hehe! i love you sayang to the max! betui lah. hanya Allah yang dapat tentukan jodoh kite. 

Signs That Your Relationship Can Last

Relationships are not always perfect. They can be full of happy or sad moments too or even both; however there are ways to understand if your romantic relationship is strong.

Not all relationships last. Not only because there are big problems, but also because people are not willing to find solutions for smaller problems.

The following signs can't tell for sure if your relationship will last. However they are very important clues that you relationship is strong and can last, as long as you and your partner are willing to try.

1) You can trust each other.

Even though trust should be essential for every relationship, there are people who can't trust each other and also people who can't be faithful. The first category has to do with people who are introverts, afraid or hurt from past relationships. All these prevent them from being happy with their significant other. The second category has to do with people who are afraid too. What they fear isn't the point. The point is that they tell lies to their partner or they even become unfaithful. If you have a relationship that is based on mutual trust, then you must be happy, because maybe this is the hardest thing to find in a relationship.

2) You can cheer each other up.

When you have a bad day and your partner finds a way to make you smile, then you know he/she is the right one for you. If you always run to him/her first, when you have a problem, then that's a sign too. This person is understanding and comforting towards you, who needs something more from his relationship? If you can actually talk to each other about your problems, your thoughts and your deepest fears, without hesitation, and if you can also be good listeners and can find solutions to help the other person, then maybe you are meant to be together!

3) Differences bring you closer to each other

Some people are constantly trying to find their "perfect match", a person who shares the same interest with them, likes the same music, the same movies, the same way of having fun. That's so stupid. You can't find a person who's the same with you and if you do find him/her, then, believe me, you'll be bored very soon! People are meant to be different, that's their beauty: to share different thoughts and learn from it. So if you do have some differences with your significant other, then you should wonder if you're ok with it. Some people find it hard to compromise while some others love the variety of opinions! If you belong in the second category, that's very good for you!

4) You respect each other's personal space

Another common problem in romantic relationship is the pressure. Many people tend to become compulsive because of their jealousy for the other person that reveals a low self esteem. So, they don't let the other person breathe, they want to be with him/her all the time and they ask them about everything in an interrogative way. That's a thing that can ruin a relationship. Even if the other person loves you and is totally faithful to you, there will be a time when he won't be able to stand the pressure any more. In addition, it gets boring if you spend all of your time with the other person. A healthy relationship means that you spend some time on your own.

5) The past is over

In my opinion, a relationship shouldn't even start if one has feelings for his ex. Of course, a new love interest can ease the pain a break up has caused. However, if the feelings for the previous relationship are not over, then a new, serious relationship shouldn't start. The choice to let the past go and be in the present allows both people to more fully enjoy everything that the other has to offer.

Even if these signs do not appear in your relationship, this article can still help you improve. If you change some things in your behaviour, your relationship can eventually get better. However both you and your partner should be willing to change. 


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Sejak bile?

Ok, now aku tetibe nk menaip. bercerita kosong mengenai diri ku. lame sungguh aku ni kurang update blog ni. the main reason kenapa aku tglkn blog ni? mungkin sebelom ni disini tmpt aku berceloteh. cerita hal aku itu ini. tmpt aku lepaskan geram. haha! skrg dah ade twitter! mmg aku mencarut2 kat stu. tp tak best sgt sbb ade juga kenalan yang boleh baca writing aku. oh ya, mungkin juga aku dah ade seorang bakal suami yang aku share everything almost everyday kat die sahaja. hahahha!

Nisya dan pasangan bakal berkahwin tidak lama lagi.

haha! tajuk gila power weh! mcm tajuk dalam akhbar. hahahha. aku tak assume pn weh nk kawen on this year. oh mabuk gile. ahhhhh... dengan study aku tunggang terbalik. tah hape aku buat selama setahun yang lalu tah lah.. tup tup kene kawen pulak. tu lah. rapat lg gan family bakal suami. dah mak pak nye dtg masuk meminang terus. ya Allah.. serious lah. dalam tempoh yang singkat ni, tak de masa lah nk mengidam majlis perkahwinan. kebanyakkan nye DIY. sbb tah lh.. mmg suke DIY kot. or status sebagai product design student tu melekat sgt. smpi kad kahwin semua buat sendirik. baju je lah kene tempah. hahahh! mmg hajat nk buat kendurik doa selamat je. tapi semua tu diketepikan dek kerana - aku yang kahwin, mak pak yang sebokkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk!!! geram betui. isk. tak tahu lah nk cakap ape. mmg byk kali gado gan mak aku. tu tak kene ni tak kene. membazir no 1 dalam hati die tu. aku nk buat semua simple je. sbb mmg aku ni seorang yang simple. isk. malas lah nk pk. nak dekat dah pn majlisnye. huhuhu.. tp majlis kawen ni mmg menyeramkan. duit berlalu mcm air. pk pk balik, duit tu sebenarnye dah boleh buat downpayment byr uma. tapi tah lah. org melayu kan. kene ade majlis. konon2 ikut adat. majlis dlm islam pn terus diketepikan. tak pe lah. aku tak rela buat semua ni. hmmmmm..

Bila abes belajar?

soalan yang aku tension sgt2. belajar master ni mmg tak seindah yang ku sangka. tah lah. salah aku sendrik ke. sememang nye aku menyesal smbung belajar. sbb smpi skrg aku tak dapat ape yang aku hajati. aku nk power writing, but it seems like, nothing. research aku plak, aku rs aku tak dapat nk buat. dek kerana tak de kepakaran menyeluruh dalam bidang medical device. ssh tau. hmm.. dok plak kat department biocomposite. acah2 dulu igt masuk bidang material nk power bidang ni. tp lain pula jadinye. aku nk busy mcm belajar degree/diploma dl. master ni mcm kene tinggal je. hmm.. nk buat mcm mn. tp ape yang aku belajar, nk smbung postgrads ni kene betui2 pilih supervisor. serious. tu yang akan mengerakkan research kau. aku ni langsung tk rapat gan dwg. sbb aku bukan dari field dwg. nk g fac design jaoh sgt. mmg kene drive g sane.

struggle je lah nisya. u CAN do it.

ya Allah, permudahkan lah urusan ku dunia akhirat.

amin.

Berpegang pada falsafah dibawah.

AKU MAMPU!

bismillah.

this feeling

uhhh. banyak kerja nk kene accomplish this year. 2015. please. i love you too.
dah jgn dok bercinta lagi. banyak mende betui2 kene settle this year. ahhhhhhhhhhh!